Friday, June 6, 2008

If you breastfeed...




Saw this on Diaperswappers and I had to share it for all my friends who are currently nursing, have nursed, are planning to nurse... or are just entertaining the idea.
Like I always say, the benefits never end. :)

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR JUST A FEW DAYS, he will
have received your colostrum, or early milk. By
providing antibodies and the food his brand-new body
expects, nursing gives your baby his first - and
easiest - "immunization" and helps get his digestive
system going smoothly. Breastfeeding is how your baby
expects to start, and helps your own body recover from
the birth. Why not use your time in the hospital to
prepare your baby for life through the gift of nursing?

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR FOUR TO SIX WEEKS, you will
have eased him through the most critical part of his
infancy. Newborns who are not breastfed are much more
likely to get sick or be hospitalized, and have many
more digestive problems than breastfed babies. After 4
to 6 weeks, you'll probably have worked through any
early nursing concerns, too. Make a serious goal of
nursing for a month, call La Leche League or a
Lactation Consultant if you have any questions, and
you'll be in a better position to decide whether
continued breastfeeding is for you.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 3 OR 4 MONTHS, her digestive
system will have matured a great deal, and she will be
much better able to tolerate the foreign substances in
commercial formulas. If there is a family history of
allergies, though, you will greatly reduce her risk by
waiting a few more months before adding anything at all
to her diet of breastmilk. And giving nothing but your
milk for the first four months gives strong protection
against ear infections for a whole year.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 6 MONTHS, she will be much
less likely to suffer an allergic reaction to formula
or other foods. At this point, her body is probably
ready to tackle some other foods, whether or not you
wean. Nursing for at least 6 months helps ensure better
health throughout your baby's first year of life, and
reduces your own risk of breast cancer. Nursing for 6
months or more may greatly reduce your little one's
risk of ear infections and childhood cancers. And
exclusive, frequent breastfeeding during the first 6
months, if your periods have not returned, provides 98%
effective contraception.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 9 MONTHS, you will have seen
him through the fastest and most important brain and
body development of his life on the food that was
designed for him - your milk. You may even notice that
he is more alert and more active than babies who did
not have the benefit of their mother's milk. Weaning
may be fairly easy at this age... but then, so is
nursing! If you want to avoid weaning this early, be
sure you've been available to nurse for comfort as well
as just for food.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR A YEAR, you can avoid the
expense and bother of formula. Her one-year-old body
can probably handle most of the table foods your family
enjoys. Many of the health benefits this year of
nursing has given your child will last her whole life.
She will have a stronger immune system, for instance,
and will be much less likely to need orthodontia or
speech therapy. The American Academy of Pediatrics
recommends nursing for at least a year, to help ensure
normal nutrition and health for your baby.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 18 MONTHS, you will have
continued to provide your baby's normal nutrition and
protection against illness at a time when illness is
common in other babies. Your baby is probably well
started on table foods, too. He has had time to form a
solid bond with you - a healthy starting point for his
growing independence. And he is old enough that you and
he can work together on the weaning process, at a pace
that he can handle. A former U.S. Surgeon General said,
"it is the lucky baby... that nurses to age two."

IF YOUR CHILD WEANS WHEN SHE IS READY
, you can feel
confident that you have met your baby's physical and
emotional needs in a very normal, healthy way. In
cultures where there is no pressure to wean, children
tend to nurse for at least two years. The World Health
Organization and UNICEF strongly encourage
breastfeeding through toddlerhood: "Breastmilk is an
important source of energy and protein, and helps to
protect against disease during the child's second year
of life."* Our biology seems geared to a weaning age of
between 2 1/2 and 7 years**, and it just makes sense to
build our children's bones from the milk that was
designed to build them. Your milk provides antibodies
and other protective substances as long as you continue
nursing, and families of nursing toddlers often find
that their medical bills are lower than their
neighbors' for years to come. Mothers who have nursed
longterm have a still lower risk of developing breast
cancer. Children who were nursed longterm tend to be
very secure, and are less likely to suck their thumbs
or carry a blanket. Nursing can help ease both of you
through the tears, tantrums, and tumbles that come with
early childhood, and helps ensure that any illnesses
are milder and easier to deal with. It's an all-purpose
mothering tool you won't want to be without! Don't
worry that your child will nurse forever. All children
stop eventually, no matter what you do, and there are
more nursing toddlers around than you might guess.

WHETHER YOU NURSE FOR A DAY OR FOR SEVERAL YEARS, the
decision to nurse your child is one you need never
regret. And whenever weaning takes place, remember that
it is a big step for both of you. If you choose to wean
before your child is ready, be sure to do it gradually,
and with love.

*Facts for Life: A Communication Challenge, published
by UNICEF, WHO, and UNESCO, 1989
**K Dettwyler. A Time to Wean. Breastfeeding Abstracts
vol 14 no 1 1994


©1997 Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC 136 Ellis Hollow
Creek Road Ithaca, NY 14850

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Going Cloth


Our journey into "cloth" began when I worked at BESTFed, a breastfeeding resource store which has since closed. The owner, Susan, cloth diapered and whenever she changed her kids I would say the obligatory "You're so good, I've been meaning to try cloth diapering...(trail off and start straightening slings)"

Giving It a Try
It was my husband who finally kicked my butt into trying it. He heard a sermon entitled "God is Green" by Rob Bell. So he comes home and starts spewing off these facts:
-Disposable diapers make up at least 15 percent of municipal solid waste
-Disposable diapers are the 3rd largest single item contributing to our landfills.
-By the time a child is potty-learned, the average child will go through close to 5,000 diapers and put more than 2.5 tons of waste in our landfills.
-Parents will spend, on average, approximately $3,000 on disposable diapers and wipes from birth to potty-learning.
-It takes 440 to 880 pounds of tree-fluff pulp and 286 pounds of plastic (including packaging) per year to supply one baby with disposable diapers.
-It takes one cup of crude oil to make one disposable diaper, not to mention the oil used and emissions created by the creation and transportation of them to local stores.
Okay, okay, I get it.

Getting Started
On my friend and boss Susan's insistence, I took a trip to Wildflower Diapers in Scottsdale, Ariz. Shannon was incredibly helpful in getting me started trying pocket diapers, which are just as easy to use as disposables, keep baby feeling dry and come in lots of cute colors. Once I found out which kind I like (Happy Heinys One Size for me), I started branching out and exploring prefolds and Snappis (no more pins!), cute fitted diapers (I ordered a Goodmama Switchbox!), and even yummy custom-knit wool shorties and soakers. Needless to say, I'm sustainably addicted. What started as the environmentally responsible thing to do has turned out to be my favorite hobby.

Sustainably Addicted
I think it's safe to say that I'm addicted. I've tried to figure out what it is about CDing that is so darn fun. I love everything about it. I love hanging my laundry out to dry on a clothes line. I love stuffing the pockets and folding the fitteds neatly in a little basket. I love picking out which diaper he's going to wear next. I know, I know: They're diapers. But other CDing mamas will tell you the same thing - there's just something about it.
Still stumped as to what is so addicting about cloth? Here's what I've come up with.
-Women love to shop, but hate to spend money on themselves. It's a way to indulge without really spending it on ourselves.
-We love deals and FSOT sites are great for that. When you find that dream diaper in the perfect fabric for $10 less than it retails for, well, it's exhilarating.
-We are creative by nature. Choosing fabrics for a custom diaper or sending in colorway for a custom wool soaker, and then seeing another mama turn it into something beautiful is really exciting.
-We seek out sisterhood. I love knowing that I'm buying handmade items from work-at-home moms, or swapping diapers with another mama who shares some of the same parenting principles I do. For a mom who works from home and lives far from most of her other stay-home mommy friends, these forums can feel a lot like friendship.

Try It!
If you're even thinking about cloth diapering, I encourage you to try it. You can get started for pretty cheap if you check out some of the more popular For Sale or Trade (FSOT) sites like Diaper Swappers and Diaper Pin.
The biggest challenge for me was figuring out the laundry aspect. You have to use special detergents or you'll ruin your dipes (Country Save and Calgon work well for me). There's a great chart on detergents for cloth diapers, too.
I'm happy to answer any questions you have about cloth diapering. The same goes for breastfeeding or anything else you see me post about on here. I love to give CDing tutorials. Just ask my husband. :) LOL.
Happy diapering!

Cool pic


I worked on this today in Photobucket. Pretty cool. :)

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Great video

Jared put this video together the other day. We filmed it this weekend at our neigborhood park. The soundtrack is an original score by my incredibly talented husband. :)

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

My Breastfeeding Journey


When I was pregnant, I didn't think there was much of a difference between the breast and the bottle. I kind of assumed breastfeeding was something you did if it worked out for a few months and then you switched to formula. Luckily, God intervened and saved me (and my unborn son) from my ignorance.
A friend gave me a book called "So That's What They're For" and I couldn't put it down. I read it cover to cover and informed my then-visiting mom and husband about every amazing thing breastfeeding can do.
Here are just a few:
-reduces the risk of SIDS, diabetes, obesity, heart disease, multiple sclerosis, asthma, allergies, colitis and crohn's disease as well as certain cancers
-cuts down on number of and duration of illnesses, increases hydration during illness
-increases IQ level, promotes healthy teeth and jaw development, improves speech patterns

sucking it up (pun intended)
Once I learned that these benefits continue into toddlerhood, I made it my goal to make it to one year. And I did.
But it wasn't without a struggle. My first few months I was in more pain (physically) than I have ever been in my life. I had mastitis three times and many times it felt like I had two raw open sores on my chest that my son was sucking on almost on the hour! But the wonderful mommy chemicals released during my mostly unmedicated (until 7 cm) birth helped me stick with it. A breastfeeding support group I attended at a breastfeeding resource store (which I later worked for) was key in getting me through those early months.
Truth be told, I have never met a mommy that will admit that they just didn't feel like breastfeeding or got tired of it or were too selfish to do it. Everyone I have talked to had some major, unbeatable obstacle (supply issues, thrush, mastitis, a medication that wasn't compatible, latch issues, etc) that they couldn't overcome.
The fact is, something like 99-point-something percent of women CAN exclusively breastfeed with hard work and dedication as well as the right information (a lactation consultant).
For me, I knew the benefits of breastfeeding my son would last a lifetime and that no amount of money could buy the emotional and physical benefits I was giving him. So I sucked it up. For moms-to-be: You should, too.

beyond the first birthday
The closer I got to a year, the more silly stopping at a year felt. Breastfeeding River was a part of our day. It's how he liked to wake up and go to sleep, it's what he wanted when he got hurt or scared. Okay, and it was great when Jared and I wanted to watch a show and River was getting uber-fussy. :)
I learned about the benefits of nursing a toddler and about child-led weaning, which normally happens when the child is both physically and emotionally ready to stop nursing on their own.
There are a lot of myths surrounding extended breastfeeding, but let's look at the facts.
-Extended breastfeeding is recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics, which recommends breastfeeding for at least one year and beyond that for as long as both mother and baby desire.
-It's also recommended by the World Health Organization, which recommends nursing for at least 2 years and is considering revising that age to 3.
-And for my lovely Aunt Karen, the AAP says there is "no upper limit to the duration of breastfeeding and no evidence of psychologic or developmental harm from breastfeeding into the third year of life or longer.”

moving on
That being said, breastfeeding is also incredibly environmentally friendly. With no bottles to make or wash, no formula cans to throw away in landfills or transport on our highways, it's easy to see how breastfeeding during the first year can make a big impact on the planet. In addition, postponing the use of cows' milk (I don't give my son any milk) helps our planet, too.
Because of their methane gas emissions, cows play a big role in the destruction of the atmosphere. Overgrazing is responsible for serious ecological troubles, too. On a side note, I don't have to worry about River being exposed to the unhealthy hormones and antibiotics injected into dairy cows.
And, looking back, I guess that was the first earth-conscious choice we made as a family. Breastfeeding. As a mom who just got done rocking and nursing her toddler to sleep I can tell you, what a smart choice it was.

How it all started...


Well, our composter arrived today. Yes, our composter. But before I get to that I was thinking today about how much our lifestyle has changed since the birth of our son. And I'm not just talking about staying in on weekends and working our days around River's naps. We've become "crunchy," earth-conscious, environmentally sensitive, whatever you want to call it. And we've made some major changes as a result.
It seems like a snowball effect. And I think it started with breastfeeding. We've somehow gone from being indistinguishable from almost anyone else our age to being the freaks among our friends and family. So in my next few entries, I plan to chronicle our journey from oblivious Gen-Xers to question-everything hippies.
A little peek into what's to come...
-Exclusive and Extended Breastfeeding
-(Not) Vaccinating
-Cloth Diapering
-Recycling
-Composting
-Solar Panels
-Starting a Garden
-Eating Locally/Organically
Looking forward to freaking out my whole family. :)

Monday, May 12, 2008

Just the Seven of Us


When I decided to follow in my husband's footsteps and start this blog, I asked him what I should call it.
"I don't know," he said. "Think for yourself."
When I told him I had decided on a title, he was a little perturbed.
"Don't make it about us, make it about you," he said. "You make me look like the selfish one."
But my life is my family - my amazing husband, our tiny star of a child, our three crazy rescued cats and our big red failure of a show dog. Not that my husband doesn't love and uphold all these things as precious, too. It's just that since I started staying home after my son was born October 2006, this is my world.
So that's what my blog will be about. Our little (okay, medium) house in Surprise, Ariz., our increasingly "crunchy" lifestyle and the beautiful, bright little soul that we call River.
If you are reading this, welcome. As my husband says, "Let it get weird."